Looks can sure be deceptive. Who can imagine that even with
all those cute beautiful pictures Selena and her former boyfriend Justin shared
on social media were just for the gram?
Slow down pissty… take it easy and gently unload.
Here’s the gist. The “Carlo Monte” actress in an interview
the other day, candidly talked about her love life, her experience with
previous relationships and her new song.
Selena while fielding questions on the Zach Sang Show admitted she has been super-single for two years and
is now ready to find real love. She also talked about her on-again off again
relationship with Justin Bieber. However, she said all those are behind her now
and that she’s looking forward to the future.
“I’ve been super, super single for two years and I want to
know what that love will look like next for me,” the 27-year-old singer shared.
“I want it to be real and I don’t want it to be codependent
or messy or lack of communication. When you get older you find people who are
actually right for you, that are actually on the same wavelength if you will”
Fair enough, Bieber wasn’t just the only person Selena
was in a relationship with in the past. She had been in a 10-month romance with
The Weekend back in 2017.
She could probably be talking about any of these past
romances.
She categorized her first love experience as ‘a little toxic…’
“You’re in a phase of life where you experience love for the
first time and I think that can just be a little toxic. When you’re young… you
have this codependency that you think is love, and then you have this addiction
to the passion and the frustration with each other and you think, ‘Oh that’s
love.’ I believed that for long a time.”
…then she talked about her present love life…
“I’m chillin’ right now, you guys,” she said. “Honestly that
is so stressful so I’ve been having way too much fun being on my own.
It sucked for the first year, I was like, ‘I just wanna cuddle, I just wanna
watch something and be adored.’ Now it feels good. Now it feels awesome.”
…and what she will do differently in the future
“I would be very transparent,” she said. “I don’t have room to buffer things that I need or that I want.
I think girls can sometimes be scared of that, because we’re
viewed as crazy or needy or overthinking things and dramatic. I understand
sometimes, but I love being a girl and I love having emotions I have and
falling super deep and being passionate. It’s just about containing it and
channeling it in the right areas.”
“But I never want to lose the sense of love that I imagine it to be. I don’t want to be jaded or bitter from anything,” she continued. “I believe that it [love] exists. I’m happy waiting for that for however long it takes because we’re going to be doing this forever.”
